e-Journals by Elora M. Kindred

Welcome to the elorasong® blog—a sacred space of storytelling, recovery, and self-discovery. Here, you’ll find reflections on sobriety, healing after military service, spiritual growth, and personal empowerment. These heartfelt writings are crafted especially for Black women veterans who are ready to reclaim their lives in sobriety.

Room 118: A Poetic Reflection on Contentment and Self-Love Jan 28, 2022

Twelve years ago, on January 7th, I wrote a poem dedicated to my definition of contentment and self-love.

At the time it was written, my living situation appeared bleak on the outside. The obstacles I encountered subjected me to doubt, discouragement, and internal discord — all while approaching th...

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A Sober New Year’s Eve: A Spiritual Rebirth and Tribute to Jane B. Jan 21, 2022

Happy New Year, ya’ll 🎉

Yes, we are well into the year and my salutation is surely intentional. No doubt, this jubilant journey of ‘22 has begun with new adventures. I don’t know about you, but it has already introduced me to the unexplained and unexpected — in positive ways. A welcoming such as th...

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Breakdown or Breakthrough? A Recovery Reflection on Healing Through Surrender Aug 18, 2021

I have a question for you: When was the last time you experienced a spiritual, mental, or emotional breakdown?

You know, the kind that has you crying uncontrollably while searching in desperation for a solution to (fill in the blank). The heart pounding, gut wrenching kind of breakdown that has you...

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Laughing with Myself: Finding Healing and Humor in Sobriety Jul 28, 2021

I have a question: When was the last time you laughed with your Self?

Ya’ll, I laugh with my Self all the time! Why?

Firstly, because I can. LOL! (Pun intended). Secondly, because I understand and fully accept my quirkiness. I’m animated, make up my own vocabulary to express my Self, and will choo...

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How Do You Encourage Others in Healing? The Power of Safe Communities and Shared Strength Jul 21, 2021

I have a question: How do you encourage others in their healing?

As the world evolves, more and more people are sharing their past and present traumas, dis-eases and unspoken complexities.

When such topics are shared, it is imperative each individual has a trusted community to express their hurts,...

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Redefining Success: What Sobriety Taught Me About True Fulfillment Jul 07, 2021

I have a question: How do you define success?

Though the treasures we use to balance the scales of success vary from person-to-person, there is one commonality—perception. Does that come from our upbringing or simply a composition of variables from defining moments in our lives?


Tangible and Int...

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What’s the Vision for Your Life? A Heartfelt Reflection on Purpose and Persistence Jun 30, 2021

I have a question: What is the current vision for your life?

At present, mine keeps me up at night.

It causes me to toss and turn with triumph in my sleep. It wakes me with evidence of tears upon my pillow. It kisses me with comfort when I shiver with doubt. It supplies my veins with unspeakable v...

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Learning to Face My Reflection in Recovery With Compassion Jun 23, 2021

I have a question: Have you ever avoided your reflection in fear of what you may see?

I have.

Once upon a time, when I tried to peer into the windows of my soul, I retreated in fear of what I may find.


A Poem Riddled with Pain

I recently read a poem I wrote during my toxic entanglement with Al...

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The Value of Journaling: Why My Notebook Is My Spiritual Companion Jun 17, 2021

I have a question: What is the value of a journal?

For me, the collectible for record keeping is a priceless, prized possession!


Journaling as a Record of Spiritual Growth

Just as smartphones and social media platforms reintroduce me to memories with visual timelines of my past, journals allow ...

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Removing the Mask: The Truth About First Impressions and Authenticity Jun 08, 2021

I long, as does every human being, to be at home wherever I find myself. — Maya Angelou

I have a question: Do you believe first impressions are everything?

I don’t. That is, unless they are genuine.

I believe the term first impression forces people to present their best Selves first. Some represe...

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Smiling Upon Sobriety: Celebrating 14 Years of Healing, Faith, and Joy Jun 02, 2021

I have a question: Do you celebrate your life’s significant milestones?

No doubt, the manifestation of faith comes in many forms throughout our lives. However (comma), some days require great Self recognition!

Please note: These particular days of significance are not based on egocentric pride or ...

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Do You Believe in Coincidences? A Reflection on Divine Timing and Healing May 26, 2021

I have a question: Do you believe in coincidences?

I don’t.

I believe the answers to my silent inquiries are introduced and answered by divine intervention. No matter how slight or small the presentation, when I pay attention to the details and the timing, the answers effortlessly rearrange or rea...

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